The War of the Sexes

One of the highest representations of the image of God,
is a husband and wife serving eachother." - Grace Filled Marriage

I believe that the 'sexes' should compliment each-other. Compliment each-other just as I have known them to do through the examples set by my elders. Till death do us part was a vow that appeared to be well understood by all. If the 'sexes' are not complimenting each-other, if they are not serving each-other, whom are they serving?