I do not really have time to engage government services that I assume from prior experiences will not actually help me. Regardless, I thought I would look up the provincial government and the links to Victim Services once again. As you can see, I just decided to ask about the sexist policies right in the start. Why beat around the bush?
Just for the record, I might not even have a problem with the sexist policies if women were not led by the *knows* to seek their cake and eat it too. The political drives of 'false' empowerment, aka: feminism, which in reality is driven by virtue-signalling profiteers, politicians and societal misdirects. I was denied Victim Services because I am MALE.
In my view, denying me assistance in 2016, in 2017, etc. only brought more harm to my elderly mother and actually put her at risk. The same is undoubtedly true for my sister who is actually an aggressor and needs to be put in her place, and lastly of course it is not good for her kids who I have actually tried to distance myself from. I did that in order protect their innocence and it was only used against me.
Like all things in these situations, as I am told by others who have gone through such, everything gets turned upside down and used against you. For example: my sister was hurt (I believe) by the fact I that distanced myself from her kids as I grappled with near imminent suicide that my sister had actually brought about. Next she's turns around in testimony a few years later claiming that she had to keep the kids away from me.
It's just like all things, if the actual history was written out in chronological order everything would make perfect sense. In fact, I would likely be noted as a person who put up with far more abuse and tremendously difficult dynamics than I am given credit for. I would probably be noted for putting up with things far better than others might. It's just that old adage, people only remember the bad.
Anyways, here's my emails from this night. Once again there are things that likely should have written better or not said at all, but at this point.. being driven this far off the edge for this long, I think it's forgivable.
From: Dan Berladyn <dan@berladyn.online>
Sent: Oct 15 20 17:44
To: victimlinkbc@bc211.ca <victimlinkbc@bc211.ca>
Subject: I am a Victim of Psychological, Emotional, Financial, Medical, Police and Judicial AbuseI am a Victim of Psychological, Emotional, Financial, Medical, Police and Judicial Abuse.
I was told in January of 2017, that the Provincial Government only helps Women, Children and the Elderly.
Is that True?
I was told in the Spring of 2016, that the Port Moody Police Victim Services cannot help me, because I am MALE.
Is that True?
I was not told anything by the RCMP Victim Services, because they simply rejected my emails once I finally asked if anyone was even reading what I was writing.
The Justice Minister Canada, he stated that I needed to go to the Province and seek Assistance at the Provincial Level from people who do not even respond. Including the Minister for Public Safety, the Solicitor General.
I find my situation to be extremely CRUEL and UNJUST. Worsened by the FACT that I have even heard British Columbia Government Employees state that they know that they kill people and no one knows how to stop it, all while basically punishing the one with an appropriate idea to stop it.
On 2020-10-15 5:53 p.m., BC211Email wrote:
Hello,
Thank you for contacting VictimLink BC. Unfortunately I cannot answer these questions for you. We provide information about resources, such as the contact information for a local victim services agency. Is there a specific kind of service I could help you to find? For example, are you trying to get financial assistance from the provincial government?
Regards,
Jane, CIRS
Community Resource Specialist
t: 211
www.bc211.ca | facebook.com/bc211 | twitter.com/bc211help
From: "Daniel John Berladyn" <dan@berladyn.online>
Sent: Oct 15 20 18:21
To: "BC211Email" <help@elements.telus.com>
Subject: Re: I am a Victim of Psychological, Emotional, Financial, Medical, Police and Judicial Abuse
You will likely only give me a major headache and solve nothing. Who can answer those questions for me? I find it rather odd, that you as a CANADIAN CITIZEN cannot help a fellow CANADIAN.
I do not want Financial Assistance, but unfortunately this false system of self-serving virtue-signalling heroes have impoverished me and what you will offer through "Welfare" and the like will not help me. What would be of Assistance is "Empowerment", "Protection" and $2500/month minimum to fix this corrupt completely biased inept system of no one ever does anything wrong except for the donkey with the target on his back.. I am a complete victim of psychological, emotional and financial abuse by siblings who have been seeking unjust enrichment for nearly three decades resulting in my near death multiple times. I am a victim of "Medical Fraud" through the farse of "Mental Health" and false diagnoses that "doctors" pushing upon my person did not even have the "legal ability" to do so. I am a victim of extremely poor, biased, and inept policing who actually told me "You may have saved your mother's life, but now the problem has transferred to you, we don't want to deal with a problem" while I was nearly dropping dead from the induced stress of people committing FRAUD that the police just decided to completely ignore and sweep under the rug and while deciding that I should not live in my home anymore (Charter of Rights?) they decided to just RAILROAD me out of my home in critical condition to meet literally instant financial collapse with no other option but to kill myself. Survive that by burning up my relationships asking for help, the cops do again the next year laughing.. it's just so much, it really is. Multiple Assaults, death threats, forced to live homeless and breath Fentanyl and Meth, while the police block and delete publicly viewable communications. Only to survive that while waiting seven months for a trial and for such to be DENIED on the last day before Canada Day. It just goes on and on.
Trying to explain it to people who really do not care, only drains my ability to fight... FIVE YEARS of Cruel and Unjust treatment by what I only describe as a corrupt criminal bureaucracy. Total horseshit. Now not only do I have siblings exploiting my mother for gain, I have government workers doing the same. This whole system. Time and time and time again I have stated in Court, I have stated to Police Officers, I have stated to Doctors... noble forgiving intents, which would not only allow me to fix myself, but allow everyone the ability to fix themselves. Only to ignored and denied. No profit in doing the Right things in Life I suppose. Not for Private Industry and Not for Government Programs and the beneficiaries of such (employees). I could write this better, but I am just drained and this will only drain me further.
https://dan.berladyn.online/2020/10/06/98702-7b-initial-response/
So why can you not answer those questions for me?
I bet if I was a woman making a false claim, in would come all the "help" I could ever need.
On 2020-10-15 6:36 p.m., BC211Email wrote:
Hello Daniel,
It certainly sounds like you have been through a lot in your life and I can't begin to imagine how this has impacted you. You are correct that I am unable to solve this situation or grant you your requests of empowerment, protections, and $2500 monthly. We are information and referral for resources so we would be able to help with things like directing you to a legal advice clinic, offering the police complaint resources, etc.
I can understand how sharing your story would drain your ability to keep fighting, it must be really frustrating to explain over and over again and not get the result you were hoping for. I am unable to open the link you provided as it is against our policy. What questions exactly were you hoping we could answer? Again, we are information and referral and don't provide any direct services but we could do our best to answer questions if it within our knowledge base.
I wish you all the best going forward.
Take care,
Rose, CIRS
Team Lead, Certified Information & Referral Specialist
T: 211
www.bc211.ca | facebook.com/bc211 | twitter.com/bc211help
From: "Daniel John Berladyn" <dan@berladyn.online>
Sent: Oct 15 20 19:50
To: "BC211Email" <help@elements.telus.com>
Subject: Re: I am a Victim of Psychological, Emotional, Financial, Medical, Police and Judicial Abuse
Hi Rose,
It is against your Policy to Communicate with a CANADIAN CITIZEN?
It seems to me that if someone is drowning, you do whatever you need to do, unless you are government. In that case, you add more weight to them. I am not intending to be hard on your personally. It is a Letter to Administrative Crown Counsel open for the entire world to see. It is available on that personal webpage, which is the personal webpage of myself, a CANADIAN CITIZEN, a BRITISH COLUMBIAN, born and bred. My mother was born here. My grandmother(s) and my great-grandmother passed away here. I tried to send it to you as a PDF, but you email server rejected me. There's no viruses, Covid-19 or other-wise waiting to jump out at you. I didn't expect any help, but I thought I would ask again. No help for MALES that's repetitively been told. Interesting sense of Equality that Girls have. Things are only Equal if they are for the short-term gains of females (and everyone's long term loss) it seems.
I do thank you for your second paragraph. It's nice to see that someone has the sense to understand that repetitive story telling is actually bad for my health.
Dan
On 2020-10-15 8:05 p.m., BC211Email wrote:
Hi Daniel,
Thank you for emailing BC211. I am sorry to hear that you have gone through so much and currently facing so many challenges. I'm sorry that we aren't able to help you with this. We are strictly information and referral for resources. Are there any resources I can help you find? If so, what city are you in?
Henry
BC211
From: "Daniel John Berladyn" <dan@berladyn.online>
Sent: Oct 15 20 20:18
To: "BC211Email" <help@elements.telus.com>
Subject: Re: I am a Victim of Psychological, Emotional, Financial, Medical, Police and Judicial Abuse
Do I get a new person every time?
I am not sure that there are any 'Services' to be honest. It's either go hard or go home. I was "forced" through a lot of "services" that were for the most part useless and they only really served to further complicate things. Maybe it's just me from a Self-Employed Piece-Workers perspective, or perhaps it is just because I come from an older family of people who were not "dependent" upon government services, and people of other agencies, but it just seems a guy should be able to correct the corruption on his own, which for me seems next to impossible as I am continually impoverished below points of recovery by the system. There is simply no help for me stay afloat and in an operating condition as an Artisan, as a Self-Employed Tradesperson, even as a fully fledged Union Tradesperson, I come with needs and expenses that need to be maintained.
Anyways, it doesn't sound like you people can or will really help me. It is just gear spinning.
Thank you for the emails.
On 2020-10-15 8:30 p.m., BC211Email wrote:
Hello Dan,
I can definitely hear your frustration in not being able to access the help you need. If you change your mind about receiving information on potential resources that could help you, feel free to reach out to us again. Take care.
Regards,
Jane, CIRS
Community Resource Specialist
t: 211
www.bc211.ca | facebook.com/bc211 | twitter.com/bc211help
From: "Daniel John Berladyn" <dan@berladyn.online>
Sent: Oct 15 20 20:52
To: "BC211Email" <help@elements.telus.com>
Subject: Re: I am a Victim of Psychological, Emotional, Financial, Medical, Police and Judicial Abuse
You had wrote "For example, are you trying to get financial assistance from the provincial government?".
That would be of Assistance *if* I could still do what I was seeking to do from the start forwards. Which would be forensically write everything out as accurately and without as much bias as possible. I am probably not "special" in that regard. Every victim, or first timer, every virgin, probably wants to do such. At least if they are honest and with pure intent, or response. My initial idea was to write out as much as possible in the highest detail as possible. From there, I could have defended myself from being RAILROADED out of my life and into the streets with literally no other option but to kill myself. That was almost five years ago. If I could have maintained doing such instead of being burdened by more and more and more and more bureaucratic "no helps" government assistance which only required more and more and more logging, then I could offered such a forensic history for public study. For everyone everywhere that is to study. For everyone to take a first person view of the system see it's flaws of where, when and how. If I could have accomplished that, then I could have moved onto the next step. That being my answer in how to fix it for every single person, both those people working for the system and those people not working for the system. Finally of course, I could have fixed myself. Instead, I am slowly recovering and continually getting hammered back down making recovering from such harder and harder and harder as I just burn out friends, associates, peers, employers, reputation, etc. This is exactly how people get murdered from bureaucracy. They just get hit over and over by a system that doesn't really solve anything other than providing stable jobs for government employees to walk around feeling special about. Naturally, I am bit jaded, but if you actually walked through these shoes - you'd understand.
Anyways, "financial assistance" would be something I actually do seek, not that I want anyone's money, but financial assistance to either do the above, or serve in some other capacity. I am not looking for something for "free". I am looking to work for what have you, but I am impossible as I seem to be the exact opposite of government or something. I am not interested in being bound and chained, buried in bureaucracy, etc. Maybe I am wrong in that. If you cannot beat them - join them to speak. Someone said that to me once. He's very wealthy now.
Thanks again for writing,
Dan
On 2020-10-15 9:26 p.m., BC211Email wrote:
Hello,
We've had quite a few exchanges and you have shared a lot of your experience and feelings. It doesn't sound as if you are trying to apply for income assistance which is what was being referenced. We do not provide direct assistance or have any funds or financial assistance to give you ourselves. We've mentioned that we are simply here for information and referral. Unfortunately the resource you are hoping for may not exist and therefore we are unable to assist you in finding it.
I wish you all the best but unless you are looking for a specific resource we won't be able to continue engaging in conversation. You don't need to share more of your story as I understand how emotionally draining that must be and we aren't able to do anything with all of this information.
We can direct you to income assistance (welfare), legal advice clinics, victim services, police complaints, etc.
Take care tonight,
Rose, CIRS
Team Lead, Certified Information & Referral Specialist
T: 211
www.bc211.ca | facebook.com/bc211 | twitter.com/bc211help
Hi again Rose,
I am just taking the opportunity to express what I actually need from a government that seems hellbent on empowering CRIMINALS to KILL Innocent Civilians. That's obviously too much for you people. Just as is asking the Police for help with people who are emotionally, psychologically and financially abusing him is too much to ask. You'll have to forgive me as I am just reading a police file and not very happy because they are literally Criminals. Just pieces of garbage. The courts are no better.
Welfare?
Nope. That doesn't cut it.
Legal Advice?
It would be nice if there actually was Legal Advice and a Justice System, but there's not.
Victim Services?
As per the opening emails, it has been explained more than once and confirmed by a letter from Premier Horgan to Minister of Safety, I have a PENIS and TESTICLES so I get no help.
Police Complaints?
I have filed twice with the OPCC and both times they just proved to be like everyone else, government employees covering for government employees.
So I have told you what my needs are, it doesn't sound like you can refer me to anyone. Have a good night.
PS. Prince William wanted to know why guys were killing themselves.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WFNeJ_NvmmU