I was home, like I often am - trying to do my best to deal with my situation. I hear a car turn to come down the street. Immediately, my mind tells me that car is the Port Moody Police. I calmly walk outside and onto the driveway. At this point I still do not have a view of the car.
Within a moment, the car is in view.
Sure enough it is the Port Moody Police. The Officer pulls into the driveway and he stops the car in front me, not far from where I am standing. I am calm. Personally, I am a little bit amazed at myself that I knew it was the Port Moody Police. My mind was swirling on so many calculations at once, trying to compute all the dynamics coming into play on my Life.
When Officer Traietti came out of the car, he was holding the Letter. I was calm, with pride I asked him "How did I know that was you?". He told me that the Department had sent him to the house so that they could understand who they are dealing with. The Officer was visibly shaking as he held the letter.
Right away I noted his accent, I also noted his demeanor. I asked him where he was from. Boston. I liked this Officer and in all honesty, I have been reluctant to write anything on him. In fact, even filing my complaint, I wanted to file after his dates as not get him in trouble for any wrong doing he may or may not have done. He is a Good Person.
We talked about the letter, he asked what it was about. He told me Mrs. Xxxxxx phoned the Police as she was very upset over it. I tried to explain the best I could. I basically told him that she often stuck her nose into the affairs between two adults - wreckless.
I don't recall telling this Officer that my mother and I had a tumultuous relationship. It's probably just his use of the word that is throwing me off.
I did tell him that Mrs. Xxxxxx would come to this house and put down my Father. She would come here often when I was child and tell my mother that my Father was no good. I'm sorry, if you view me as wrong for that. Please tell me what would happen to a guy walking into a Family Home who was telling a husband that the mother is no good right in front of the kids?
Especially, after a period of 18% interest rates.
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*** See Below I also told him that I was deeply suicidal in the past. I explained to him how I lost 40lbs in my darkest times here, 2013/2014. I explained to him that I bumped into a friend who was working in this neighbourhood. That this friend turned as white as a ghost when he saw me, for he thought I only had a week to live. I explained to him that I found a bump on my leg during that period. I squeezed it and green came out. That never happened to me in my life before, it was disgusting. Puzzled he asked me if it was gangrene. I didn't know, I never figured it out for myself. That was just a really bad experience in my state of the time, it just blackened me even more. Trust me, everything was BLACK in those days. I mentioned that I was offered a gun in the Spring of 2015. That since it was offered, I had thought about it. I think that is normal when somebody offers someone a gun in this dynamic. I never saw it, I never tried to get it and the opportunity that came with that - it went. I lost contact with that person and it was more of mental exercise of the mind than it ever was a reality. With what was happening in terms of my family, it was natural to start spitting all of this out. We talked, he seemed to grasp it all, at least what he could of it. Many Officers did as they all heard the SAME story in terms of guns. Once I told this Officer, there was no need to hold back with the rest. This Officer would have had the most restricted version, and yes, the fact that my family was literally throwing me off of a cliff, the thoughts were easy to share. That is Normal |
In terms of the Letter, he told me as long as I did not write her again it was all good. I replied that I had no intention of writing her unless she stuck her nose in my business again. ( I think that is fair ). Officer Traietti and I, we were all good on that. In Fact, I believe he said "All Good then".
For him, I'll always remember that stressed shake he had. He didn't know what he was walking into. He's trying to do the right thing for Residents, likely on a Superior's Instruct. I liked him, I noted experience. Like I said, Good Person.
My mind was already highly scattered - before - the Police became involved. I was trying to calculate all the dynamics in play in order to Survive. Regardless, if this Officer is one of the ones who ended up playing against me in the circles of discussions, I liked him.
( *** This part I have to come back to. In the Original Report to the Crown, Jenn OHASHI had the first three weeks of November all skewed up, all out of sync, out of date, missing informatio. My initial instinct was that the Port Moody Police were lying and covering up. It completely confused me as I tried to rebuild the history. It was all said, it's just how it is all presented and WHEN. I wondered if this Officers notes were not 'adjusted' after the FOIPPA REQUEST. It is very hard for me to organize all this with out my own home, with my office and my own peace. )
( The inheritance and the tone. Why does everyone do that? I never said... in fact, that is something I was always trying to Clarify with everyone as NOT an inheritance. You assholes PMPD. Everyone fucks me. )
Port Moody Police Department General Occurrence Hardcopy- Related Date/Time: 2015-October-18, Saturday 23:18
- Printed: 2016-June-13, Wednesday
- GO# PO 2015-5985
- Subject: FOLLOW UP WITH DANIEL BERLADYN
- Author: PO106 TRAIETTI, Vincent