Dear Jenn Ohashi, Port Moody Police,

Hello,

You have just left the property here.  I have always had high regard for the Port Moody Police Department and it’s Officers.  However, honestly I think your actions are damaging my perspectives of you.  I contacted you and I contacted victim services initially in September of 2015.  I was under the impression that you would act in my interests in that matter, or in the least remain impartial, what I have witnessed however is the opposite.  I keep making excuses for you, but this morning I feel I need to address it.

Back in November, I had asked for your Services offered by Constable Morrison.  I never heard a word in reply.  Nearly two months later two Psych Nurses knock on the door...

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I was told that those nurses only came because you do not know how to handle this situation.  I believe this to be true.  I am also coming to believe, or in the least allowing myself to believe that you have formed a bias and you are acting on behalf of that bias.  That bias being protecting my elderly mother (who I do have concern for), who has taken everything I could have in life while promising reward, return, etc. and while protecting my eldest brother, a thief and a person of immoral statute in my opinion.  He’s likely on his best behavior now, but in essence you are clearly protecting the people who have victimized me.  Even the RTB Decision clearly states that my elderly mother is manipulated by my siblings.

Why would you take this stance?  Most likely because it’s the safest, cleanest, simplest Political solution for the Department.  I’m not that smart, but I am smart enough to know that the Department and those in it do not want poor publicity.  For me, it’s becoming clear you intend to work against the victim and protect the victimizers.  I would rather you email me in writing, than come to my residence and unsettle me emotionally.  That you have done.  My nerves are unsettled and as a consequence I am unable to determine and work on my most immediate priority. I have a lot to deal with no matter which direction I turn and you only make it harder but dropping in, this in effect just gives the other camp what they seek.

You know it was interesting at the hospital.  A part of me kept feeling railroaded by you, although consciously I had to keep over-riding that feeling, telling myself you were clear in your intent and you were neutral in perspective.  In reality however, the first day I had two Psychiatrists questioning me in what felt like a Law and Order TV Episode after being detained against my will under a Section 28.  There were questions and prods which felt like an attack.  The most interesting words from those two Psychiatrists were the intrusive feeling I felt as they stated that I “Vandalized” this house.  Lets forget the fact she has this house because of me, lets go back three years ago when she was approving these renovations, making decisions with me and even PAYING for portions of them down here.  Given that information, where did the Psychiatrists find the word “Vandalized”?  Where did that come from Jenn?  Where did the Attack posture the two of them have to my perception come from?

I’ve been very open and honest with you.  I have worked with you.  Now I have even allowed you into my personal space (which is a complete mess and an embarrassment) at your request.  I am starting to believe that working with you and having an expectation of you acting with a neutral bias towards each party is too much to ask.  It’s seems clear you have chosen a side to protect and a side to apply pressure.  I find that very unfortunate.  I like to value the truth and for me, the truth is that you are aiding someone who has victimized me to near suicide many times in the past, someone who has continually devastated me financially, emotionally and professionally.  And it doesn’t even stop there.  You are helping someone who just within less than a month ago, both committed FRAUD and LIED under OATH.  I find that very disappointing.

I also find it disturbing that you have no concern for my property on the other side of this door I have paid for in a house where it has been ruled that I have full access.  Going further, it has also been ruled that my mother, the title holder is manipulated by my siblings, especially my eldest brother the one who does NOT live in Port Moody, the one you are so concerned in protecting.  The same brother, who had mentally badgered me for years.  The same person who worked for nearly most of my life, especially the last twenty to undermine my relations with my own mother, my house mate, my financial tie.

It is my belief that you are actually harming the real victim here, the one who initially went to YOU the Port Moody Police for help.  The only one here to my firm knowledge has almost lost his life on several occasions and the one who is at risk of losing his life in the longer term if this situation is not resolved appropriately.  So I am going to ask you, the Port Moody Police Department to please back up and reassess your motives.  I understand two things, you have legal obligations, the reasons you exist in the first place and you have POLITICAL obligations/motives.  I am aware of both.  The Department and those in charge of it do not wish to end up promoting the wrong side of an argument.

I am open with you, as per the discussion today why is the other party you are protecting not open with you?  That was clear from your meeting here with me today.  I feel that is a question you should be asking yourselves.  Secondly, I feel you should read the RTB Decision where it clearly states, my mother, the title holder is manipulated by my siblings.  Namely, Jim Berladyn & Lisa Palmer, and to a lesser  degree my middle child, brother Mike Berladyn who follows in hopes of gain, all FINANCIAL BENEFACTORS in my decimation.  I expect neutrality from you the Port Moody Police.  Honestly, I do not expect to work with you and feel unsettled, even pushed and I do feel that way.

This is my life, I am sure deep down none of you want to contribute to a situation where I commit suicide in five, ten, fifteen years.  I am sure none of you want to railroad someone who legitimately laid his life down to stop his parents from losing everything against the wishes of his siblings.  I am open with you, I attend and volunteer my time and energy to the help that is available to me.  I encourage extended family who knows the parties and the long term history more than you, the PMPD, to help.  I am also aware of what the other party here may not be aware of, it’s not just I who may lose everything, it is my mother as well.  My siblings take no loss.  If you take it upon yourself to talk to Dr. Owen James, I want you to know something, he will lose his license to practice if I can prove what he conditioned me to do.  From the papers I had to pay to get from him, he’s covered his ass well.   In the end, everyone loses.

I ask you to back up and reassess your neutrality.  If you can, please stop the surprise visits if you can.  You only unsettle me.  Perhaps that’s too much, but I don’t see you commencing those with my mother in my interests, I only seeing you doing such against me.  I ask you to instill the peace, that includes my emotional and psychological PEACE to seek help and counselling from both extended family and the Professional Services of the Tri-Cities Mental Health Center and anyone else who may bring a positive outcome to all of this.  I’ve been open enough to share some words of the Psychiatrists at the Royal Columbian.  Again, the younger ones without life experience disappoint me, but the one in charge of everything there, in person I found his words to be wise, understanding and respectful to the dire position I am in.  I suspect, from the words you have given that they (young ones) have told you it is not Psychologically healthy to remain in this house.  I also suspect they did not tell you what they told me.  They do not have the time or the resources to actually help me as a human being.  Their main emphasis is the same as yours, cover their rear end and perform their legal obligations.

I will remind you that the head Psychiatrist stated himself that I seemed to be handling everything over the years fairly well, in the right manner.  I have countless text messages from myself reminds others who tried to guide me against my own mother, that my mother is still my mother.  In spite of everything and anything, to me there is still personal obligations towards as an entity.  I have heard similar words from her in the reverse towards me as a Son, but from my experience in knowing her well over 40 years, she’s mainly concerned with her own personal embarrassment.  She has little concern for me and my future.  If she did, we would have never of ended up here.  In fact, if she did we’d both be in good financial shape and this house would have had many years of maintenance lovingly applied through my own sweat and blood.

So before we interact again, I would like to ask both Jenn Ohashi and the entire Port Moody Police Department, to perhaps reassess the motives.  I am a Lifelong Port Moody Resident.  I personally feel I have been played, manipulated, cheated, lied to, exploited and extorted for the sole reason of acting in the best interests of my home, my parents, myself and believe it or not for many years even my siblings.  When I was younger, I had much more foresight than I do now.  I also tend to not like to see people hurt, I get no enjoyment from it.  I have been violated for YEARS.  As I tried to communicate today, I have been reduced to ashes many times.  I am currently in the worst spot I have ever been in and the clock is ticking.  I kindly ask you to remove your bias, act in neutrality.  For me, your presence was unnecessary, I intended to contact you yesterday and left it until my return this morning, which when I pulled up you were sitting waiting for me.

Just so you know, I don’t believe my mother fears me.  I believe she may fear leaving the house and having me enter upstairs and taking property that is mine.  Property that I am being blocked from accessing.  For all I know it’s already been stolen.   I don’t have that luxury of keeping them out of my space.  For all I know my computer was accessed as it didn’t lock when I went to the hospital.  For all I know they read the information I paid for from Counselling years ago.  For all I know they reviewed my financial statements, loans, etc.  Even my mail, that’s not private…  do you know my siblings at one time commented that I don’t need money from here because I have a Pension Plan with IUPAT?  Besides the point at the moment, but I do expect a little more neutrality and less bias from the PMPD.  I also expect you not to push me into a direction that may force me into position that may end up in suicide a few years, or many years down the road.  Remember, the Psychiatrists that communicated with you clearly stated they don’t have the time to help me and that they are covering their legal rear ends.  I have no issues with them, I am however thankful for the words of the Senior Psychiatrist.  By the way, they found it very interesting that I was prescribed those medications in the past.  I personally find it interesting that my GP now states I shouldn’t have been on them for the length of time I was.  He prescribed it.

So, to reiterate, my current plan is to move forward in small steps which include Tri-Cities Mental Health and the last remaining elder that I have.  My eighty year old Uncle Ike Berladyn, along with the remaining cousins that I have.  Certainly the Department can understand that is a sane, sound means of resolution.  As far as my mother is concerned, she entered the garage while I was in it with no fear last night.  It was completely calm, no emotional push either way that I could feel.  As I stated, perhaps this is foolish on my part, but I do not wish to initiate communications without someone emotionally neutral present.  She needs to come to me, she again has not.  As I explained to you, she has been conditioned for years by my siblings, she’s likely still guided by them.  From what I have seen today, you the PMPD are only acting as an enforcing wedge disrupting any will to rekindle relations.

Please assess your neutrality.  This includes you Jenn Ohashi.  I know what I need Psychologically, even the doctors will get some of it wrong.  I like John Mokt, and I hoping I can be open with him enough while I hoping he genuinely wishes to help me, for a positive solution to come from this.  I find it extremely disappointing that you would communicate or act in the interests of my oldest brother Jim Berladyn.  Personally, I believe it would be beneficial for you to remove him from the equation of this household.  In my opinion, you should be dealing directly with my mother and I.  He is a catalyst for failure in seeking a positive outcome, no matter what that may be.  Also, the same goes for my sister.  You don’t have to personally believe anything I say, but I believe I have been honest with you.  As honest as I can be, especially with twenty years of ups and downs, emotionally, psychologically and financially.

Please assess your neutrality and instill some peace for my survival, thank you,

Dan Berladyn

( I don't think it gets much more direct than this. As for John Mogk, those words hurt, I was writing too fast and the original email was lost due to a computer 'malfunction' from a computer that didn't formerly malfunction. John Mogk, I didn't intend to state I liked him, the truth was I was remaining open to him, as he had a 'Masters Degree'. I was willing to clear my own bias and grant him the chance from clear slate. )