Hi,

I remember my brother Jim Berladyn saying many to me years ago this is the kind of situation where no one will help you. And you go crazy, you end up with nothing, everything you say and do works against you. Then I watched the light bulb go on in his head, I watched develop the motivation to ensure that it happens. To survive, I’ve had to bury it just to get through the day for years.  I knew this was all coming a long time ago, a fight or what have you.  Even mom used to say it on to her friends.  It was exciting gossip.

Do you have any idea how hard it is to get 20 years out, or even as Pam wants 35-40 years?  Realistically, it does start about 36 years ago.  Psychology and growth, things just compound exponentially.  So the most important thing to do right now is try to nuke that tenancy.  With no proof and just words, then when you write fast and you don’t proof read you can really hurt yourself.  I wanted to try last night but then I lost focus.  People write to ask what’s happening.  I need one spot, that’s one of the reasons for Facebook, but it doesn’t work that great for what I wanted.

I had a neighbor stop me, John Andrews.  He saw you talking to me.  I remember when my sister came here five/six/seven years ago, he saw what was going on and he said that’s bullshit, that should be considered your house.  But then there’s the law which is very strict and very easy for three siblings to have planned for and worked against one, along with a mother.

Gary Linden, another neighbor told me a few months ago to tell him what’s happening.  I saw him for the first time in months today too, so in 5 minutes or less..  I tried to explain to him as well where everything is at.  He doesn’t agree with what they are trying to do, he’s sees it all as money and sickness on their part.  He’s worried for me.  His wife might work against me.

Larry Rhodes whose wife just passed away, he was the one for the last five years who told me I am the one he talks to and he see’s everything that’s going on.  All these people could or could not work against me.  I told Larry in the Summer I needed to get out of here and just abandon it, I was too sick from it and I can’t say that I truly wanted to, I was just ran completely over and had no choice.  I think Larry may or may not have told my mother.  Sometimes I say things and slip when I know I should say nothing.  I don’t know if he’s selling his house or if he will take an interest in either party for his own reasons just yet.

Those people could work against me as I have been miserable in the past or they could not – I don’t know.  That doesn’t help the legal definition of tenancy though.  I swear it’s just greed.  Mom was the one many years ago during Expo who stated who rents their homes?  Ughh..  beneath her.  However with brother Jim pushing her and Virginia Usher looking after disabled kids…  Since  2003/4 or so mom has started to believe she would have just done that.  That’s when I was trying to take over the mortgage to secure myself against my brothers failed.  I was so miserable I wanted out, she never cared about me.  I have witnesses at the Union Hall I worked that just said to me they remember me not buying a place when they told me too.  I was too concerned for my parents.  In 2005, my eldest brother told me to “pack my shit and get out”.  Mom came balling her eyes out, I know I owe you she said.  Then my dad passed away, then my grandmother, the medication, selling my truck, dumping personal assets, having no widows in a high-rise each floor of my work area..  that period, it was like a country song.  Girlfriend even left me as well as the dog dying.

Without sounding mean…  I hope you do not judge me, but I looked after shutting of the outside water in the winter since I was 14 years old.  When  I re-plumbed (the entire house) I made it easier, then I showed her how.  I just replaced myself after 2013.  Now she does it!   She never knew how prior or even that it needs to be done.  I shoveled snow here since 14 or too.  I’d almost always shovel this driveway in full without fail.  I probably didn’t do it every single snow day, I would say the snow clearing service was pretty good.   Since October 2013, I basically stopped.  I saw her out there with a shovel last year.  This is where I don’t mean to sound mean, but it was like the special Olympics.  She cleared the landing and she looked so proud and independent.

Anyways @$#%.

You probably don’t need any of this.  I will try to break down the Residential Tenancy Branch Document and Conference for you.  I meant to do it last night.

Thank you for not handling it worse,

I will work on that RTB and Conference,
Dan Berladyn